Current mood: cheerful
Yes, it is 7:30 and I’m up. I’ve been up since 7:00 a.m. thanks to Hubby and Lola.
It’s ok, though. I’m in an EXCELLENT mood today. It might have to do with the EXCELLENT night I had last night!
Well, I haven’t blogged on here much the last couple of weeks so I haven’t mentioned this, because I kind of hoped it wouldn’t go through. Hubby is being transferred at work, up to another location near Flint. It’s called a “forced transfer”. He has had a couple of close calls where he was going to be transferred to Jackson and Lansing in the past, and at the last minute, he had a reprieve. But although his boss and his boss’s boss have been working diligently to keep him here, unless something happens today (Saturday) it is doubtful it will happen before he has to report to the new place on Monday.
We have gotten over it, and he and I, as we always do, have found the positives in the situation. He’ll be significantly up higher in the seniority list at this place, so he should probably get a more desirable schedule, and there are a couple other perks as well. However, if I know his boss, Hubby may end up back at the home garage in just a couple of weeks. Hubby and the other guy who got transferred, they are 2 of only 3 guys in the whole area here who know how to do fiber-optic cable repair and this whole area is one of the first in Michigan to roll out the fiber optic service. Plus, the two of them are 2 of the 3 people who do DSL in this area too. So now they’re down to 1 person to do fiber (and he’s never done it alone, and only once with Hubby), and 1 person to do DSL (and they were overloaded with orders for 3 people). I have a feeling they’ll be bringing them back. The 3rd level boss (the boss’s boss’s boss) is also campaigning to get them back too. The reason they’re the ones being transferred is because they are the lowest on the seniority list at their current location.
Then, too, the boss, and the 3rd level boss have been helping Hubby try to achieve the ultimate transfer, to Tennessee. And it’s been going a bit faster lately so it could be that he will only have to go to this location for a little while anyway with that going on too.
But anyway, I was just laying the background as to what we were doing last night. The guys from work had a goodbye party for Hubby and the other guy. We went to Cleary’s which is a local irish pub. It was sweet, Hubby wanted me to come, and no one else’s wife was there, and it didn’t appear that they were asked to come. So for much of the night, I was the only woman at the table. It was quite amusing. For a while this other woman they work with, Carrie, was there and I really like her. We have gotten to know each other better over the last few years and there’s a lot of mutual respect there. She’s a very nice person. This is the first time she’s gone to a company after-work party, and it was definitely because she really thinks Hubby is awesome. When she left, she hugged me, and said, “Take care of him, now, he’s one of the best guys I know.”
What was really nice about the night is that the guys who showed up were mainly Hubby’s buddies, and we get along great. Hubby’s dad came for a while too and was as charming as he could be. Hubby’s boss was there too. I had a ball talking to Dennis, who is one of the smartest, sweetest people I have met in Michigan. We talked about Hubby, and my family, and religion, and kids, and you name it, we discussed it. Jack, who has been retired from the company for about 2 years, came up also. After discussions, it has been decided that Jack, Dennis, Bat and I are driving up to Lansing to see 300 on IMAX on Sunday. It’s going to rock! I may have to sit separately from them so I don’t offend them with my open lusting.
Hm…Ron, another guy that Hubby works with, was there and I’m telling you, he’s so much more outgoing since his divorce. I didn’t realize that he was so limited in social situations before. We’re supposed to go do karaoke with him and his girlfriend in the next couple of weekends. He apparently likes to sing karaoke. How many guys have I met that do? Not many!
Now, a couple of the guys who came are old-timers at the company. 30-35 years in, they have been there as long as the father-in-law, and they have seen Hubby and BIL grow up. The last time I saw them at a party, we got into it (me and the two guys) about their philosophies on what makes Hubby (and BIL to some extent) tick. Plus there was some veiled propositioning that took place. I got a little aggravated with them at the time. Last night, they were there and I got to start talking to the one guy, Phil, before he had consumed a lot of alcohol and he is absolutely adorable. We had a really deep conversation about alcoholism and his life experiences. He’s such a nice person and I realize how much he likes Hubby.
The other guy, Jeff, was pretty nice too.
HOWEVER…after mostly everyone left, it was just me, Hubby, Jack, Dennis, Phil, Jeff and Ron. Jack and Dennis decided to leave so Hubby walked out to the parking lot with him so Jack could give him some soda to put in the pop machine at work. They were out there A LONG LONG TIME…those two could put me and SIL to shame with the talking and talking and talking. Anyway he left me alone with Ron, Jeff and Phil and Oh. My. God. I thought I was going to die with all the commentary I was getting from them. From the mild, “Guys, too bad you’re sitting over there, ’cause [CG] smells SOOOO GOOD!” from Ron, to “Hey, they rent rooms upstairs, [Hubby] could be out there for another 20 minutes…so that’s 10 minutes for me, 5 minutes for Ron and 5 minutes for Jeff…”
Can you believe that? There was a lot more but here’s what I did. I just sat there, and listened for a while without getting mad, and then…BOOM! I laid the smack down…
Phil had said before that he was at the end of his career and just didn’t seem to learn the new technology very well, but that Hubby was the future of the company because he could do anything they roll out. He said, “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks…You could teach me to jump through a hoop, but that hoop would have to be only 2 feet off the ground. But [Hubby] would be jumping through the hoop 8 feet off the ground.” After he started hitting on me, I simply said, “Now, Phil, why would I go with someone who could only jump through a hoop 2 feet off the ground, when I have a man who can jump through the 8 foot hoop?”
And Jeff had said, when Phil was saying that stuff about him getting 10 minutes and the other guys getting 5…he said, “You’re flattering me, I don’t even need 5 minutes…I only need 1!!” and so I said to him, “I don’t even need to say anything about that…The answer was in the question…why would I go with someone who admittedly can only last 1 minute?”
Ron was falling out of his chair, and the two of them just sat there looking like they’d been hit with a 2×4. I don’t think they’re used to being put in their place by a woman. And I don’t think they were expecting it from Hubby’s woman…I think the reason they even go there with me is because they think Hubby won’t step up and say anything. But he doesn’t have to, I can take care of myself.
When Hubby finally came back in, Jeff said, “Now [Hubby], [CG] hasn’t been very nice to us while you were gone! She put us in our place!!!” and Phil said, “[Hubby], I think I’ve met my match here. I think we’re going home with our tails between our legs.” and Hubby just said, “If you guys had asked me, I could have warned you that you don’t want to get into a battle of wits with *my* wife…she’ll take you to the cleaners and you won’t even realize what happened until you get home later. Even *I* know better than to start something like that with her!” It was really funny. We left there all in high spirits and I think I earned a little respect for me AND for my hubby from these guys.
Hubby was so happy after we left there last night, I’m so glad those guys came to his party and that all his really good buddies from work were there. It was nice to see that side of his life, and how much these guys think of him. It always shows me another dimension of this man I already think is the best guy in the world.
We came home to our kids and Tay and her brother, it was about 11:30 when we got home. They went downstairs, and my man took me to bed. And we spent a little time showing each other that our biggest fan was the other. 🙂 And you know what? My husband likes me. He really likes me! I’m probably one of the luckiest women ever.
Today, I have to take Tay and Princess to the store to find them matching shirts for the talent show next Friday. Then they are going with Tay’s cousin to JoAnn Fabric to buy some fabric to sew on the shirts and their capris. It’s going to be really cute, I think. They are singing a duet — “Who Says You Can’t Go Home” by John Bon Jovi and Jennifer Nettles. Princess is also going to sing “Over My Head (Cable Car)” by The Fray. Tay is singing “Call Me When You’re Sober” by Evanescence.
Later today, if the weather stays nice, I will take my little one to the park. I love my baby so much. I can’t believe how fast the time is going and how she is growing. I can’t believe that in less than a year and a half, my Princess will be in high school. All the kids are getting so big–my 2, and all my other nieces and nephews. Next thing you know, I’ll be blogging about college graduations, weddings, grandchildren. I swear, it seems to be going that fast!
I forgot to mention that when I was down visiting my Mom, my brother burned me like 10 CD’s of songs for my mp3 collection. I’m rocking out with the Commodores, Lionel Richie solo, Beach Boys, Billy Joel, everything America or Bread every recorded, some good Eric Clapton tunes, a pretty decent crop of Conway Twitty, Cream, Crosby Stills Nash Young. I got everything the Eagles have done (including The Greeks Don’t Want No Freaks!! a B Side Legend!). And Oh! Fleetwood Mac heaven. Genesis, Guns N Roses, Hank Williams Sr. and Jr., Queen, and Jeez, much more.
AND I just downloaded a bunch of Robert Palmer off of iTunes…I miss him more than you could know. He was amazing. Total bad ass. And sexy as hell.
So I’m listening to my tunes, waiting for the kids to get up, and watching my stinky Lola. Speaking of stinky, I gotta go address the situation with her.
Take care, ya’ll!
||Currently listening :
By Robert Palmer
Release date: By 15 June, 1990