Please, send me strength. Prolonged exposure to my inlaws might be hazardous to their health.
Some things I want to say today:
1) Girlfriend, I love you with all my heart. You are #1 to me too, and always will be. Kids, men, jobs, whatever…you have always been one of the few things absolutely necessary to my happiness since the day I met you 18 years ago. Of course we know each other better than anyone else after that long. You are doing the right thing at home right now and I stand behind you 100%. If you need anyone to plant a boot in someone’s ass, let me know and I’ll come down. Tell them, “Don’t make me call down the wrath of CG on your ass.” You can call me anytime about anything. The knowledge that I can do the same with you has sustained me all these years as a refugee in Michigan.
2) My husband said something to me for the first time in our 8 years together. Without being prompted to do so. So I really needed to document that on Friday, December 22, 2006, my husband told me that he needed me. He tells me all the time that I make him happy, that he loves me, that he adores me, that I am the most wonderful woman in the world, but for some reason he has never said the above. I have asked him a couple of times and he said yes to the question, but never just came out and said it to me. So that was probably one of the most wonderful things that has happened in a long time. It was just during a normal conversation, kind of sparked by some of the things going on in his family with his uncle that is dying. Whatever the reason, he said it of his own accord and with so much love that I will remember the location and everything till the day I die — Toys R U$ parking lot, in our van, driving towards the western exit, stuck in holiday traffic jam.
Well, I have a ton to do today and not enough time to complete everything.
I don’t know how much will be put on here between now and Christmas Day, so I will take this opportunity to wish all my special friends a WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS or CHANUKAH. (“Name your poison” — at least that’s what our holidays have become with commercialism)
I am grateful for your friendship and support.